人与人之间最大的差距，不是天赋，而是行为。懈怠的人把天赋当才能，勤奋的人把努力当才能。The biggest gap between people is not talent, but behavior.
曾经说过，让你与众不同的事情，你可能会觉得它是负担，但其实不然。大多数时候，它能让你变得优秀。所以，在言行上，不要害怕与众不同，因为，这才是能够让你和别人拉开差距的东西。said, what sets you apart can sometimes feel like a burden, but it is not. A lot of the time, it is what makes you great. So never be scared to act differently from the crowd, to speak, to act, because at the end of the day that is what sets you apart from others.
人与人的差距，是思维模式的差距：“限制型思维”的人是有多大本事，就做多大事；
“目标型思维”的人是要做多大事，就去培养多大本事。
没人可以请，没钱可以借，不懂可以外包，对手可以学习，不管遇见什么困难，只要干起来，办法总会有的。
认知的高低，就是这样一步步拉大的。
The gap between people is the gap in thinking patterns:
People with "restricted thinking" can accomplish as many great things as they have the ability;
People with "goal oriented thinking" should cultivate as many abilities as they want to achieve great things.
No one can hire, no money can borrow, no understanding can outsource, opponents can learn, no matter what difficulties you encounter, as long as you work hard, there will always be solutions.
The level of cognition is gradually increasing in this way.
为什么买大城市一套房如此重要呢？
大城市里你没有房，身体与灵魂都留不住。有了房的孩子出生就在大城市，不会被农村思想熏陶，孩子的命运更容易得到改变。
农村或者小城市长大的孩子，将来还是要奔向大城市，继续走父辈没走过的路，吃父辈吃过的亏。
大城市长大的孩子们，从小储备的知识、资源、认知、世界观、领先农村孩子十年以上。从古至今都是物以类聚人以群分，穷小子接触不到真名媛，更别说取得到了。牛郎只能配织女，农村女也不可能嫁富二代。
北京是政治和文化中心，顶级教育和最高权力都在这。
你想跨越阶层，要么从商，要么从政。想干这些事都需要文化和财富的累积！
以前，财富差距不大时，寒门能出贵子。
如今，贵子只属于富门。
年轻人上半场拼父母打下来的江山，下半场拼自己的人生规划。没有上一辈人的付出，下一辈的人就要付出更多。
Why is buying a house in a big city so important?
You dont have a house in a big city, and neither your body nor soul can stay. Children born with houses are born in big cities and are not influenced by rural ideas, making it easier for their fate to change.
Children who grow up in rural or small cities will still have to rush towards big cities in the future, continue to follow the path that their parents did not walk, and suffer from the losses that their parents have suffered.
Children who grow up in big cities have accumulated knowledge, resources, cognition, worldview, and are ahead of rural children by more than ten years since childhood. From ancient times to the present, birds of a feather flock together, and poor boys cannot come into contact with real celebrities, let alone obtain them. Cowherd can only marry Weaver Girl, and rural women cannot marry a wealthy second generation.
Beijing is the political and cultural center, where top education and highest power reside.
You want to cross social classes, either in business or in politics. To do these things requires the accumulation of culture and wealth!
In the past, when the wealth gap was not significant, a humble family could produce a noble son.
Nowadays, the noble son only belongs to the wealthy family.
In the first half, young people compete with their parents struggles, while in the second half, they compete with their own life plans. Without the efforts of the previous generation, the next generation will have to give more.
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