1.如果事与愿违，请相信上天一定是另有安排；所有失去的，都会以另外一种方式归来。相信自己，相信时间不会亏待你。
❤If things go wrong, we believe that God must have another plan; all the lost, will come back in another way. Believe in yourself, believe that time will not treat you badly.
2.因为孤独是生命的常态，所以陪伴才显得格外珍贵。永远不要因为新鲜感，扔掉一直陪伴你的人。
❤Because loneliness is the normal state of life, so the company is particularly precious. Never throw away someone who has been with you because of the novelty.
3.真正的内心强大，就是活在自己的世界里，而不是活在别人的眼中和嘴上。人生在世，无非是笑笑别人，然后再让别人笑笑自己。
❤True inner strength is to live in your own world, not in the eyes and mouth of others. Life is nothing more than to laugh at others, and then let others laugh at themselves.
4.总有一天你会知道：人心换不来人心，认真也得不到情深。做得再好，也会有人视而不见；说得再多，也会有人充耳不闻。
❤One day you will know: People can not exchange for peoples hearts, serious also can not get deep feelings. No matter how well you do, people will turn a blind eye; no matter how much you say, people will turn a deaf ear.
5.做一个安静细微的人，于角落里自在开放，默默悦人，却始终不引起过分热闹的关注，保有独立而随意的品格，这就很好。
❤To be a quiet and subtle person, free and open in the corner, quietly pleasing people, but always do not attract too lively attention, maintain an independent and casual character, this is good.
6.别在年轻的时候假装不爱钱，毕竟星辰和大海是要门票的，诗和远方的路费也是很贵的，靠自己的能力赚钱会上瘾。
❤Don’t pretend not to love money when you are young. After all, the stars and the sea need tickets. Poems and travel expenses are very expensive. It is addictive to earn money on your own.
7.心里有你的人，总会主动找你；心里没有你的人，总是自动忽略你。其实，沉默就是答案，躲闪就是答案，不再主动就是答案，其实，你早该明白了。
❤There are you in the heart of the people, will always take the initiative to find you; there is no you in the heart of the people, always automatically ignore you. In fact, silence is the answer, Dodge is the answer, no longer active is the answer, in fact, you should have known.
8.避免失望的最好办法就是，不寄希望于任何人、任何事。期待，是所有心痛的根源，心不动，则不痛。自己独立、变得更强大才是正道。
❤The best way to avoid disappointment is to place no hope on anyone or anything. Expectation is the root of all heartache. If the heart does not move, it does not hurt. To be independent and stronger is the right path.
9.很多时候没那么主动的原因是因为我太害怕了，不是真的有够无所谓，而是太担心自己被抛下了。没有感受到百分百被坚定地选择的话，宁愿把渴望藏起来，也不想让自己显得太狼狈。
❤A lot of times I dont take the initiative because Im too scared, not because Im really indifferent, but because Im too worried about being left behind. Do not feel 100% to be firmly selected, would rather the desire to hide, do not want to appear too embarrassed.
10.有很多事情，自己其实明明知道真相。却忍不住拼命找到漏洞和借口来推翻真相，成全自己心里想要的答案。
❤There are many things, I know the truth. But can not help but desperately find loopholes and excuses to overturn the truth, to fulfill their hearts want the answer.
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